Pick-Up Stories and Advice

Ok.... So in the last couple of months I broke up with a long term gf of a bit over 5 years. Since this I have completed a bit of research into wat women want and how we as guys can attract them. I m not saying I m a guru or anything along those lines but I would like to share stories of my events and I hope u will 2.

Please post ur opinions...

Just 2 start... Wat is the difference between sum 1 who can talk 2 girls and sum1 who can't... Confidence!

Every1s worst fear is rejection! But we deal with rejection in everyday life. I believe that if u experience it enough eventually that fear will dissipate.

My dad has told me many life time quotes which I will share... He said 2 me "son, every hole u don't play is a hole u miss"

I need help attracting women and am keen to hear your wisdom

Well brad this thread is partially ur fault... After talking the other day 2 u I decided I should document my stories!

As much as we like to think people don't judge u by the way u look, we r totally wrong!

First impressions make the world of difference. If I can giv any advice:
go 2 the gym
buy stylish fashionable clothes
get some sun
get ur teeth whitened
spend a bit of cash on a decent hair cut
wear expensive cologne

azza2906 wrote:Just 2 start... Wat is the difference between sum 1 who can talk 2 girls and sum1 who can't... Confidence!

Actually I completely agree with this one.

I spent a big majority of High school single and this was mostly due to lack of confidence.
The moment I was in a relationship, I no longer over thought conversation with women or overly tried to impress them.

Instead of was easily approachable and talkative.

Women responded very well (my missus might say too well)

You say 'spend money on a decent hair cut', does this mean you died your hair? Because ranga is rangano matter how you cut it


Anyway, please impart your wisdom on me.

Every1s favourite story is themselves...

Don't do it! Wenever u talk to girls, never ever talk about urself. Make her work for it. She doesn't want 2 hear sum random loser talk about himself... But she does want to talk about herself: so let her!
Ask questions without interrogating, make them funny and laugh at watever she says. Wait 4 her 2 ask u, never go first cause suddenly u r an ego minded dickhead who wants to talk about himself. Even if it comes to u spin it around 2 her again. Keep her talking and u will win her trust!

capnwpac wrote:You say 'spend money on a decent hair cut', does this mean you died your hair? Because ranga is rangano matter how you cut it


Anyway, please impart your wisdom on me.

lol even tho my hair is a little red... I can still pull women mate. Actually I kno a few ranga mates who do very well with women. There r not many good looking stylish rangas around, so as long as u can look the part people want to kno u cause u r different from the average Joe

False time constraints

use this little secret 2 ur advantage! If u ever approach or tune a girl always giv her a false time constraint... Make her want more!

As soon as u start talking to a girl, there natural reaction is oh fuck great how r we going to get rid of this stalkerish loser and u will hav them on edge.
Tell them u can't stay long as u r going to meet back with ur friends or going out or hav an appointment or sum shit so it makes them feel like u r going anyway.

Suddenly, ur no longer a stalker and u r accepted

Oh right I remember now.
Like entering a two girl chat from one side.

Good tips mate

That's exactly right! Which brings me to my next point

Body Language

if u can look like u r having fun, ppl will think u r a fun guy and they will want 2 kno u. If u walk around with a frown face no1 is going to want a bar of u cause they just want to b happy. So bottom line is
smile all the time! Even if u r not having fun!
Smiling and laughing=fun and people want to kno u cause u must b fun
also posture is a big deal... U need to stand tall and proud not hunched in the foetal position

So wat I explained to brad is that if their was 2 girls at the bar u would
definately never approach in the middle of them. If u do suddenly u hav made a triangle
baracading the girls against the bar leaving them fearful cause they wouldn't b able to run if they wanted to. Suddenly u r pressuring them and it will b awkward.

Wat u want to do instead is approach on the outside of the girl u want to talk to and strike up a conversation over ur shoulder making it look like u could leave at any time (even if u don't)
u then further this by giving another false time constraint. Suddenly ur in and ur not seen as a weirdo.

A fun trick to play in this scenario is to ask if u can sho 1 of the girls a trick. Tell them to hold ur hands then stand up from there stool. Ask them to spin 180 degrees then sit in her seat and tell her she wanted to see a trick and she was tricked. Make sure u laugh and smile, then giv a false time constraint and let her kno she can hav her seat back shortly as u hav got to go sumwhere. Suddenly u r in and all attention is on u!

Aaron please share some stories of this fascinating "theory" put in to "practice". Brad and I had the absolute pleasure of witnessing one such event on Sunday.

Lol seems you have put some DEEP thought into this....
What the hell is a Ranga?

Agree with the gym...
Girls like a guy who looks after himself... Well depending what type of girl your after that is lol...
Also when you feel good about your self, you feel more confident about things... (Dont be over-confident though and think you can pull any chick left right centre lol)
Dress to impress